There are songs that are not just meant to be listened to – but to be breathed with, to hurt with, and to remember with. “How Do I Stop Loving You” is one such song. Every time the melody plays, we are pulled back to old moments: unfinished handshakes, words left unsaid, and loves that no longer have a place to return to. 🎤 When Engelbert Humperdinck sings, we clearly feel one thing: There are people we can’t stop loving, no matter how much time passes, no matter how many times reason tells us to let go.

Introduction

“How Do I Stop Loving You” is a heartfelt ballad sung by Engelbert Humperdinck, co-written by songwriters Artie Butler and Norman Martin. The track appears on his album Remember – I Love You, originally released in 1987.

From the opening lines — “I’m trying so hard to forget you / And leave the life we had behind” — the song plunges listeners into a world of sorrow and longing.  What sets this performance apart is Engelbert’s voice: tender yet powerful, capable of conveying regret, love, and heartbreak all at the same time. He expresses the anguished dilemma of trying to move on from a love that remains ever-present in memory.

Rather than anger or bitterness, the song conveys quiet resignation — the painful truth that love does not vanish simply because one wills it to. The chorus cry “So how do I stop loving you?” becomes universal, resonating with anyone who’s experienced the haunting echo of a love lost but not forgotten.

Though “How Do I Stop Loving You” may not have topped major charts like some of Engelbert’s earlier hits, it stands as a moving testament to his skill in interpreting emotional material — a gentle, sorrowful confession wrapped in classic balladry. Over decades, the song has remained a quiet favorite among fans who cherish Engelbert’s gift for timeless love songs. In its humility and honesty, the song remains a poignant portrait of longing: a melody for hearts that never quite forget.

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